云中曼步

继续命运数理学，太准了，(*^__^*) 嘻嘻……

THE SOUL URGE

2

With a 2 Soul Urge, you have a deep inner need for love and harmony in your life. Resolving problems using mediation and diplomacy produces a warm sense of achievement. When you avoid the pain of stress and conflict, you are well on the road to feeling fulfilled.

THE DESTINY NUMBER

2 (11/2, 20/2)

The number 2 Destiny suggests that the direction of growth in your lifetime will be toward gaining an understanding of people and a greater spiritual sense of the world around you. A name producing a 2 Destiny gives you the tools to work very well with other people. Your destiny will be, in part, in the role of the mediator and the peacemaker. As you grow in this direction, you become sensitive to the feelings of others, you become diplomatic in handling complicated situations.

The spiritual potential for the 2 Destiny, and perhaps particularly so for the master number 11/2, is very high. You have the capacity to be inspirational, and the ability to lead merely by your own example. An inborn inner strength and awareness can make you an excellent teacher, social worker, philosopher, or advisor. No matter what area of work you pursue, you are very aware and sensitive to the highest sense of your environment. Your intuition is very strong; in fact, many psychic people and those involved in occult studies have the number 11/2 Destiny. Indeed, the 2 has a spiritual connection not found in other numbers.

In many ways you are dependent on others and seem to function best in a partnership or in some form of group activity. As you mature, modesty will run deeper in your nature, and you must work comfortably without recognition of your accomplishments.
Often, others will get credit for your ideas, and this must be of little real concern to you as you skill as a team play progresses. Cooperative, courteous, and considerate, you have the capacity to become an outstanding facilitator. You will have the capacity to organize and handle people, just as you will handle detail, rarely overlook anything.

As you fulfill your destiny, tactful and friendly behavior will increase your popularity, and nearly everyone will like you. Perhaps this is also because you are more content working with your ideals, rather than dollars and cents. The positive aspect of the number 2 Destiny is an always idealistic attitude. This is even more accentuated in the master number 11/2.

The negative 2 personality can be oversensitive and easily hurt. Too much of this number in your makeup can make you very shy and uncertain. Sometimes the excessive 2 energies makes one apathetic and somewhat indifferent to the job at hand; the ability to handle details is hampered in these cases.

Some 2s, and especially the 11/2s, struggle with a continuous sense of nervous tension; you may be too sensitive and temperamental. You tend to dream a lot and may be more of a dreamer than a doer. Fantasy and reality sometimes become intermingled and you are sometimes very impractical. You tend to want to spread the illumination of your knowledge to others irrespective of their desire or need.

数字命理学，真的好准哦~

先前有学习过数字命理学，亲爱的stella去台湾学习完后又和我分享，更增加了我的兴趣。

感兴趣的同学点击这里，真的太准了。

5 (5, 14/5, 23/5, 32/5)

The Life Path 5 suggests that you entered this plane with a highly progressive mindset, with the attitude and skills to make the world a better place. The key word for your Life Path is freedom. In the pursuit of freedom, you are naturally versatile, adventurous, and advanced in your thinking. You are one of those people who is always striving to find answers to the many questions that life poses. The byword for the positive Life Path 5 is constant change and improvement. You want to be totally unrestrained, as this is the number most often associated with the productive use of freedom.

You may be one of the most compassionate of people as the 5 is surely the most freedom-loving and compassionate Life Path. Your love of freedom extends to humanity at large, and concern for your fellow man, his freedom and his welfare, may be foremost in your mind. A great Life Path 5 American President, Abraham Lincoln, issued the Emancipation Proclamation, and ended slavery in America. As the ultimate progressive thinker type, your potential in government, the law, and other positions of authority is unlimited.

You are a good communicator, and you know how to motivate people around you. This may be your strongest and most valuable trait. Because of this skill, and your amazing wit, you are a truly natural born salesman. This ability to sell and motivate extends to any sort of physical product all the way through to whatever ideas or concepts you may embrace.

You abhor routine and boring work, and you are not very good at staying with everyday tasks that must be finished on time. On the average, the number 5 personality is rather happy-go-lucky; living for today, and not worrying too much about tomorrow. It is also important for you to find a job that provides thought-provoking tasks rather than routine and redundant responsibilities. You do best dealing with people, but the important thing is that you have the flexibility to express yourself at all times. You have an innate ability to think through complex matters and analyze them quickly, but then be off to something new.

A love of adventure may dominate your life. This may take the form of mental or physical manifestation, but in either case, you thrill to the chance for exploration and blazing new trails. Surely you belong to a group considered the most worldly and traveled. Clearly you are not one to pass up a good venture. You have quite a lot of the risk-taker in your makeup. If you aren’t putting your money at stake, you are surely open to a wide variety of risks in your everyday life. Taking the conservative approach is just not in your nature.

In romance, you hate to be tied down and restricted. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you are unfaithful or promiscuous, but it does mean that a good partner for you needs to understand your nature. A relationship based on jealousy and having tight reigns is not going to work at all for you. A partner who understands your need to be free and trusted will find you trustworthy, even if you aren’t constantly available and totally dutiful. It is important for you to mix with people of a like mind, and to try to avoid those that are too serious and demanding.

If you are living on the negative side of the Life Path 5, you are apt to be multitalented, but suffering from some lack of direction, and there is confusion surrounding your ambition. Restless, discontent, and impulsive, you may bounce from one job to the next without accomplishing much at all. A negative Life Path 5 can become very irresponsible in tasks and decisions concerning the home and business life. The total pursuit of sensation and adventure can result in your becoming self-indulgent and totally unaware of the feelings of those around you.

不要争辩

收到一封很不爽的邮件。

本来想找发件人辩论一番，后来还是算了。想想发件人可能都很忙或是现在环境不好。于是放弃了。

时间成本太高，何必花时间在辩论上。

后来发现一个可悲的事情：如果我们犯了一个错误，而别人看到我们的错误并选择不告诉我们，那该是多么可悲的事情。

所以，如果我们能够收到别人对于我们做事的回馈，不管好与坏，请务必感恩。

静的力量

现在的我依旧是很忙碌，与以往不同的是，我越来越变得安静，这其中有更多对生命的理解，对他人的宽容，对周围环境的慈悲，也有对能量更好的管理。

我 偶尔依旧会很紧张，尤其是最好的朋友在经历人生最艰难的时刻的时候。对于这些挑战，我变得坦然接受，这是生命中一定要经历的体验，也促使我不断的提高我的 灵性。在经历这些挑战的时候，我不断的看到自己的ego,不断的和自己的ego对话然后继续向前，这是人生宝贵的经历。

If the situation gets more challenging,it means that we have to pray harder and take more actions.现在的我比以往都要专注于祷告，祷告会让我获得灵性的成长，让我反思这个俗世世界发生的一切。我相信不断的祷告一定一定会帮到我的朋友还 有他的家人。希望他们都勇敢的度过这些挑战。

It is not the end,it is just the beginning.这些挑战不是终点，只是起点。我知道未来的岁月我依旧面临很多的挑战。Challenge makes us stronger.当面对挑战时，要有一颗感恩的心，在挑战与绝望中找到希望，其中或许会包括对生命，死亡和灵魂的思考。我们生活在一个非常挑战的年代， 无论何时，一定要保持团结一起去面对。关于生命，死亡和灵魂，这是教育中迷失的一部分。我们需要去学习和思考。当上帝关上一扇门时，它也打开了另外一扇门。

Synergy.Jeff来深圳，我们一起讨论了newstage的现状和未来，发现synergy变得越来越重要。我们再也不能是孤岛，一定要与别的岛屿联合起来。我们生活在一个与然发生联系的环境，简单的生活已经是过去式，但重要的是，生活依旧是充满了希望与阳光。

2010年依旧是生命中重要的一年，我相信很多事情都会发生很多变化。心理学是我下一个要努力的方向。

依旧是满满的希望。

最后，想把这句话送给正在经历他人生2012的朋友：

不要害怕，也不要忧伤。

Live strong!

We are together with U.

Tomorrow is another day.

最后的最后，

If we believe it,we will achieve it at the end of the day.

谢谢你们

今天是生命中难忘的一天。

谢谢我的“爸爸妈妈们”，谢谢我的灵性朋友们，谢谢我最亲爱的大家，因为有你，我在阴雨天看到了阳光。

多么多么的感恩！神啊，谢谢你，我知道是你派他们来到我身边。

深深的感恩。God is at our side.

成长

今天一天情绪都不是很好。 庆幸的是我不断给自己的情绪降级，下午和同事打球，晚上则和朋友们一起学习。然后所有怒气就失踪得无影无踪了。

我们每个人都只需对自己的生命负责。很多东西，都会错过。身临其境时，或许失望，或许愤怒，或许悲伤，最最重要的是，我相信有一天我们都会明白这些事件背后的大智慧。

我慢慢学会超脱，也慢慢在用意识管理我的情绪，意识到自信是多么重要。其实，我的人生一直也只能在我手里。

安安静静，一切都还是很好。我会过得很好。

PS，谢谢我的mentor们，你们又在我最要垮掉的时候把我拉回来了。

2010：成家立业

2010:成家立业

今天和一个朋友吃饭，吃饭后得出的结论是成家立业乃是最重要的事情，女孩子终究是要结婚终究是要有一份属于自己的事业。

整个晚饭的聊天都是随着这个主题展开。包括应该交哪些朋友，工作的走向，时间和生活要远远胜过忙碌的工作，如何进行精力管理和时间管理。

一句话感触很深，在合适的时间要做合适的事情，多向前辈讨教总是对的。

后来我发现，我被保护得很好。S说，你的生活一直都很舒服。我当时不觉得，现在在慢慢经历人生的起伏期时才发现其实我的人生都蛮舒服。

聊天的最后则是分享如何学好英语。发现生活慢下来之后可以和大家吃饭感觉真的很好。

谢谢上帝，让我遇到你们，从此我的人生更加丰富和精彩。

Area training归来

最近一直没什么参与toastmaster的活动，精神一直有些恍惚,因为我终于停下来去反省过去无数个日子发生的事情。 今天和stella一起联手分享领导力和沟通技巧。因为在培训前和stelle碰头过两次讨论如何把工作坊做好。因为作业做足，今天也出奇的顺利。我们的工作坊分为两个部分： 第一部分是每个俱乐部的干部做到一起通过SWOT分析每个俱乐部的现状然后每个俱乐部有三分钟时间做一个presentation介绍讨论的结果。第二部分则是案例分享。

讨论出来的结果非常有趣。主要是两个问题：

1. 会员的演讲积极性不够
2. 干部队伍不强大

其实对于会员演讲积极性，我们每个人都有惰性，嘻嘻。所以最重要的是每个会员要有意愿去行动提高自己的演讲水平，同时作为会友，我们要支持我们的会友，多多鼓励会员，帮忙看看稿子和一起演练都是不错的方法。 对于干部队伍，我觉得大家如何看待领导力很重要。我觉得领导力应该是引导，分享，服务和影响。我们对于领导力的定义会在很大程度上决定我们思维的高度，深度和广度。我一直相信，我们的每一份付出，我们的每一份服务，我们都是最大的受益者。

今天angela分享 5 steps to succeed.和大家一起分享：

1. Have a vision
2. Set goals
3. Build a team
4. Monitor progress
5. Achieve

我觉得这是打造一个dynamic的团队非常有效的俱乐部。和大家一起分享。 有趣的事情是，area training的最后，我忽然有打算在toastmaster选择一个officer职位继续做下去。现在每天都发生很多事情，所以到了今年6月应该就有结果了。Cindy又回来了，嘻嘻。

为使命而来

越来越清晰自己想要做的事情：

身心灵。

也越来越感受上帝的calling。现在的我，其实已经很难被别人改变，也越来越淡定，已经不想去取悦别人，也不想为了任何目的而失去自己。 唯一要做的是，在2012到来之前，多服务多帮助到他人。只有帮助到他人，才会帮助到我自己。

第二人称，不要越界

在语言表达的时候，尽量不要使用第二人称。

“你让我觉得很无用。”当我们口中说中“你让我。。。。”的时候，我们会给对方很多压力，对方会感受到我们在责怪他们，我们的无用是对方造成的。

如果我们的表达方式换为：“我觉得很无用”，我们只是在和对方表达我们的感受而不是在责备对方，用“我觉得”是成熟，为自己情绪负责的表现。

不要越界

尽可能不要代表对方对某事发表观点，除非事先已经和对方磋商并得到对方的认同。

A和B是夫妻，C是他们的朋友。

A对C说，“我们打算结婚后在家里养一只狗”

同时坐在饭桌的B说，“我怎么没有听说过我们要在家里养一只小狗”。

A在没有征询B的情况下暗示了B也同意在家中养小狗的计划让B觉得很懊恼，因为B根本不喜欢家里有狗。

在 表达看法的时候，不要越界是一个需要注意的准则。我们总是以为对方一定会这样想，但很多时候对方未必这样想。有的时候我们想，那家伙是个讲究面子的家伙， 所以千万不能在会议上讨论他的不足之处。其实，对方未必介意大家在会议上讨论他的不足之处。如果团队成员真有做得不足的地方，在会议上讨论是很正常的事 情，因为经过讨论和磋商会进一步推动事情的进展也有一次大家一起学习的机会。其实很多时候，我们在对事不对人，不要主观下判断也不要越界为别人下结论是一 个避免冲突的方式。